THE NUGGETS OF WISDOM: God Is Love

THE NUGGETS OF WISDOM: God Is Love: See what kind of love the Father has given us- That We Should Be Called His Children 1John3:1

God Is Love

See what kind of love the Father has given us- That We Should Be Called His Children 1John3:1

HOW TO SUCCEED

How to succeed

You don't need all of these, and some are mutually exclusive (while others are not). And most don't work, don't scale or can't be arranged:

1. Be very focused on your goal and work on it daily
2. Go to college with someone who makes it big and then hires you
3. Be born with significant and unique talent
4. Practice every day
5. Network your way to the top by inviting yourself from one lunch to another, trading favors as you go
6. Quietly do your job day in and day out until someone notices you and gives you the promotion you deserve
7. Do the emotional labor of working on things that others fear
8. Notice things, turn them into insights and then relentlessly turn those insights into projects that resonate
9. Hire a great PR firm and get a lot of publicity
10. Work the informational interview angle
11. Perform outrageous acts and say obnoxious things
12. Inherit
13. Redefine your version of success as: whatever I have right now
14. Flit from project to project until you alight on something that works out very quickly and well

NUGGETS OF SUCCESS.

Human society is made up of people who have met success and those who have not. No one knows for sure whether their life will be blessed by fortune or burdened by fate. The elation of triumph is short-lived, but those who understand that every setback, too, is only temporary and who continue to make steady efforts with confidence and conviction, canachieve truly great things. Ultimately, victory comes from never giving in to defeat What is success in life? Who are the truly successful? There are famous and powerful people who become pitiful figures in their old age. There are people who die alone, feeling empty and desolate inside. Just what is success? The person who lives life fully, glowing with life’s energy, is the person who lives a successful life.

CAUSES OF INFIDELITY IN RELATIONSHIP

*. 1) Poor choice because of Low self worth: People who have a low self esteem might get committed to people whom they don't truly love just because they believe that they can't attract the ones they really love! Those people don't only stop at this stage but they take a step further by deceiving themselves and claiming that they married the ones they really wanted to marry only to end up as cheaters! *. 2) Poor choice because of fear: Out of the fear of ending up alone or out of the pressure thatthe society puts on certain people they get into a relationship whenever they get the chance to even if they were not that convinced. After some time those people find themsleves unhappy and thus start cheating if their values allowed them to cheat. *. 3) Poor choice because of the influence of friends and constant programming of someone's mind by friends can make him become attracted to a person whom he wasn't interested in. A third group of people get into relationships after their friends keep convincing them over and over to be with certain persons! Usually friends recommend people who are good for them but this doesn't mean that those people are going to be good for you! People who get into relationships because of that same kind of pressure might end up being unfaithful when they discover that they didn't marry the person they wanted to marry! *. 4) poor choice because of lack ofself understanding: Most people don't really understand their needs and as a result they don't know what they want. Because of that problem those people confuse attraction with long term commitment and get committed to the first person they get attracted to without realizing that they are doing a big mistake. One of the major causes of infidelity is finding that your spouse is not helping you meet your important unmetneeds. If you didn't get enough self understanding you won't get the chance to understand your needs and you might make the wrong choice

WHAT IT TAKES TO ENCOURAGE

I have a passion for encouraging and inspiring people to live life to its fullest. It warms my heart to see people discover who they really are, especially when encouraged by family, friends and mentors, and act to live the life they were born to live. I challenge individuals to seek their purpose and destiny, to move towards its realization, and to let it be their life's work. I have given many speeches over the years on various topics. All of them at their core motivated people to be true to their authentic selves and live on purpose. The next logical step was to publish a book that included the nuggets of inspiration from these speeches

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The book contains one nugget per page. One may think they could easily read through the pages in a few minutes and be done. However, these nuggets latch on to the human spirit and engage the heart and mind, it challenges the individual to really think about life; what's really important and how to enjoy life's simple pleasures. I encourage people to keep the book on their night stand, in their office and other places where they can easily pick it up and read a page. There is something there for many aspects of life.
I intentionally included one nugget per page to enable an individual to write their own thoughts or notes on the nugget page. Maybe a thought, memory, idea or dream that was important to them, or jumped out at them and motivates them to write it down.

These nuggets have been presented in book form in the spirit of love and encouragement. It is my prayer and hope that you enjoy them for years to come. May the nuggets be beacons of light in the midst of darkness, rays of hope to the hopeless, showers of excitement to the victorious, excited and delighted, and pillars of encouragement, motivation and inspiration to the downtrodden, those who have given up and the lost. Know that you are never alone. Be encouraged my brother! Be inspired my sister!

THE ISSUES OF LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP.

Partners in a relationship have different roles. There are times when the burning intensity and power of the sun are called for, and times when the soothing luminescence and serene wisdom of the moon is what’s needed. A complementary relationship in which the partners cooperate and work together is a beautiful thing. In a relationship, it is demeaning to constantly seek your partner's approval. If you find yourself in a relationship where you are not treated the way your heart says you should be, have the courage anddignity to decide that you are better off risking the scorn of your partner than enduring unhappiness with him or her. Happiness in life is not determinedby marriage. The secret to happiness lies in building a strong inner self, a self that no trial or hardship can diminish. Daily life can seem all too drab andunexciting. Living itself can sometimes seem a strain, and few of us realistically expect what joy we feel to last forever. But when we fall in love, life seems filled with drama and excitement. We feel like the leading character in a novel. We can lose ourselves in romantic attachment, but the truth is, the euphoria is unlikely to last for long.Indeed, the likelihood of undergoing suffering and sadness only grows over time. As long as we remain unable to redress our own weaknesses, we will be miserable no matter where or to whom we may take flight. More The important thing is to overcome the sorrow that accompanies any type of separation, such as death or divorce. The vital thing is to continue advancing. Do not look back. Just forge on. There are many reasons why people bid farewell to one another. People have their own thoughts and situations. The deep scars within your heart may not heal quickly. Yet brace yourself so you can look forward. More If you are neglecting things you should be doing, forgetting your purpose in life because of the relationship you’re in, then you’re on the wrong path. A healthy relationship is one in which two people encourage each other to reach their respective goals while sharing each other’s hopes and dreams. A relationship should be a source of inspiration, invigorationand hope.